Friday, July 20, 2012

#1 Schools. My Experience and Opinion On Why They Are Falling Apart

Me, I'm not special in any way.  Fact.  I'm a coward when it comes to the world and people.  I can't stand people anymore.  I'll continue with my honesty, and admit that my track record in life is not good, and I admit a bit pathetic.  I never achieved my diploma due to multiple health issues, misdiagnoses, and medicine given to me that effected me greatly during high school leaving me a bit bitter and resentful of how schools operate.  And I'm a failure the longer I don't have a diploma is how this society views things.  But I just can't bring myself to trust any of these institutions anymore and teach myself.  My reason why....

          Living in Montana,  I caught a really bad case of pneumonia.  I forced myself to go as much as I could, but I got so bad it was nearly impossible.  Teachers were making me go home because I couldn't stop coughing, and they'd tell me I needed to go home and rest .  When someone in my family noticed how bad I was after a month, they took me to the hospital(memory is foggy, maybe clinic).  A month after, with meds and rest, I was only at 50% in overall health, but I went anyway.  I was told I was a horrible student and kicked out because I did not have a note right there and then, despite me saying I could get the records to show I was out for a reason, didn't matter.  Even lied to my parents (they lived in WA during this time) and said I walked out saying I quit school.  Parents believed the teacher over me and my brother's brother-in-law who was with me during the meeting, got pissed, forced me to move to Washington state.
        What really, REALLY, pissed me off was the fact that the credit system here in WA was different than my previous school, and required more credits to graduate.  They didn't feel like calculating what I would have if I had been there for my 9th and 10th year.  No no, that's just too much work.  Instead of putting me in as a Junior with a class or two to make up credits, they put me back in as a FRESHMAN and said I had to redo all of high school.  I protested, they didn't care, said they'd look into it, they did nothing.
     After a while, I had multiple medical issues hit me one after another or at the same time that kept me out of school or on and off throughout the weeks.  I was forcing myself to endure as many classes as I could, through a respiratory infection for 2 weeks, an intestinal issue that had me in agony all day for about a month, physical and mental stress from everything, depression, they put me on Adderall saying I was ADHD, and a high dose of valium at night because I was suffering from bad insomnia.  I was completely out of it, life was a blur, a real auto-pilot time.  Then, the higher ups as usual needed to make me seem like I was doing it all deliberately since I was a bad kid and labelled me as, "not being interested in learning at all" so they could feel alright about letting me go on paper before giving me the boot.

     And now, years later, here's something that makes my head explode.  I have a 15 year old sibling that has missed more days in one year than I had missed my entire life of being enrolled in school.  They were rarely ever actually sick, refused to go because they didn't "feel like it", would become physically violent with kicking punching slapping even biting if you tried to get them up, whined emotional distress to counselors as a cover for flat out disobedience and laziness.   She missed MORE days than she went the entire year, but get this, they didn't kick em out.  They gave my siblings chance after chance after chance, for two years, and even when summer is about to hit they set them up a summer school program she could attend but they're refusing and coming up with excuses to avoid that also. These schools are messed up and these kids are getting just horrid.  They schools here teach well in their classes, but the way they handle students on an individual level, especially in situations like I've described, is absolutely appalling.  The lazy child that knows how to throw out tears on command or knows how to parrot excuses from their parents or TV shows shows they watch, can miss half the school year and gets more chances than anyone. While the students who are forcing themselves to go to classes when they are mentally and physically are in constant horrid conditions, day after day getting worse, get kicked out and are called lazy and described as, "not interested in learning at all".  These schools are horrid, they need to be fixed, pronto.

Anywho, first bog.  Not sure how this works, if its posted somewhere, I have to link it somewhere lol but yeah.  Thanks for reading if someone does, if it works that way. *bow* cheers for listening to my rant ha!

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